When I was a teenager I used to be a big liar and I'm not proud of that! One day, years ago I just decided that I'm not gonna lie anymore! Thank god I don't even know how to tell big lies anymore! But I remember the time when I did.. It was continuing vicious circle and the more I lied the harder it was to tell the truth in any factual connection. Telling a lie is one of the most hurtful things. I understood that I need to respect others at least that much that I tell the truth to them!
Now when I'm going forward as a honest person I experience other peoples lies extremely hurtful and degrading. If I would have known how bad it can make other person feel, I wouldn't never lie! What is the reason that makes people hurt each others? I mean what is wrong with us? I think we are living here together and we should pull together to survive. Why can't we see that? Maybe we are just so big cowards that we are too scared to accept responsibility from our own actions. It's so much easier (on the short run) to make lies or not to tell the truth, not to be responsible and fair. But trust me, on the long run it will destroy you!
What I love about animals is that they are always sincere and honest! The same thing is with babies, they don't know how to lie yet. Dogs always show their feelings through their eyes and behavior. And I truly believe they have true feelings! Why can't people be like them? Why don't we want to be like they are; true honest living creatures!
As we know lying effects on health strongly. So isn't that quite good reason to seek the truthful life? I think it is. When you are honest you feel a whole person, you are more complete. And helping others, treat others like you want them to treat you, it just feels amazing! Never give up on people, there are some many good persons in the world. And always give second change; anyone CAN change!
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