I think we all just want to feel being in love again and again.
What is love? What is it all about?
Love really is all around! Now, when summer comes I can see it in peoples eyes: love love love love. It's funny thing how much people's behavior changes during the year; In Finland there are times when no one is smiling, they just walk ahead staring at the ground.. In between times you can see lots of lovers, happy faces, laugh and joy but it usually happens during summer time. I love that period! It's wonderful to walk down the street when most of the people are extremely happy!
So many of us tries desperately find love. I really don't believe that you can "find" love: the more you search the more it takes distance from you. Why search it in the first place? I mean love is all around! You don't need to be in a relationship to feel love. For example I love good food, music, nature, see, water, smiling people, friends, family, meeting new people, clothes, playing every kind of games, my balcony, coffee, swimming, beach volley, new places, travelling, acting, animals... list goes on and on. All lovely things around us may be hard to see time to time. I stop everyday, smell the air and I'm trying to see all those things I love in this world at that very moment.
You can't love someone else until you love yourself. I know that's true. So at first you have to learn how to love yourself (in healthy way of course). I used to think "Will I ever feel that complete falling in love - feeling again?" and I was pretty sure that wasn't gonna happen anymore. But then I realized how much there is love in the world: It's in every people, in the nature, in me. Love exist even you wouldn't feel it all the time. For me love really was about a relationship (I couldn't feel it without a man) until I saw the truth and now I see and more important FEEL it everywhere even I'm not in a relationship :)!
Clearly I can feel love all around! This picture makes me laugh because I just look so in love and the funny thing is that the only thing I'm in love with is living life! |
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